People often say: Stay away from rage. At the time of a fierce battle, people could not control themselves. At this time, deciding what will only make you and others vulnerable.
People with stable emotions often live with the present
The National Assembly once said: Do not welcome the past, do not leave the present, do not welcome the future. People with stable emotions will not be bothered by past events, nor pursue future goals. They only pay attention to the present, do good things ahead.
Vuong Duong Minh also said: "Just keep this mind often, already studying. What is the benefit of the past and the future? Leave the atrium empty. ”
As long as there is a mind, it is possible to observe the existence of the mind, this is education. What has happened and what has not yet come to think of? Just think like that just makes people lose their mind in the clear.
People with bad emotions, can be tragic, resentful about the past, may also be worried about what has not yet arrived. In this flow of time like this long school, we can only hold the present. Injury because of past things, spent by looking for possible solutions. Future things have not come yet, just by doing the current things well, can change the trajectory of the future.
Focusing on the things in the hand and the immediate things, people will be extremely calm and harmonious, they are not in a hurry, rushing, and escaping and realizing.
People with stable emotions all know to "let go of themselves"
While in Long Chang, Guizhou, Wang Yangming used to make a stone coffin. The reason is because in his enlightenment process, he could not let go of self, let go of samsara. He had vowed that if he was considered dead, what else could be owed?
He sat in the coffin and still sat in the monk's mind and mind. Finally one day he enlightened the morality of "The way of knowledge" (studying the principle of things that summed up knowledge). The biggest obstacle for humans is not others, but oneself. If it is impossible to break the self-indulgence, then it is very difficult for him to escape the attachment of emotion.
The reason we feel miserable is because of our own failure. Failure is the thing that does not work, evolves in the mind of "I", to the last step completely without the results that "we" expect, so "I" will feel miserable.
Chuang Tzu also said: People can let go of themselves and travel the world, who can harm them? A person who does not consider himself anything, who can make them angry, makes them angry?
A person's self-esteem is too strong, a sense of self-overconfidence, so if someone else has a few offenses, they will immediately react. Everyone has a way of life of his own, try to let go of the "I", but consider from the perspective of others, but understand, but tolerance.
Leaving yourself, forgetting yourself, forgetting personal desires, prejudices, can not harm people and things. Let go of your own passions, natural emotions will become stable and healthy.
People with stable emotions often live very simply
Wang Yangming once said: "All of our public life, only demand is decreasing, not demand is increasing. Partially reducing desire, acquiring a part of the divine nature, how light, gentle, how simple it is! "
Elaborately declining rather than increasing, that is to reduce the craving for material, to reduce the desire of people, to restore the essence of conscience.
Too much desire is the source of all suffering. A person thinks too much, connects with the world too much, and disputes and divisions are many. Human desire is infinite, just want this thing, and want something else. The lustful person controls the mind, will eventually become tired of the three, it is difficult to liberate.
When the death of Trang Tu died, he knocked on the pot and sang clam. When he was about to die, the disciple wanted to be buried solemnly, he said: On the hawks they eat, then they will forgive, contend with them, which is useful
When everyone is crowded towards the top, the money and the good money everything wants, Trang Tu again overlooks birth and death.
A person with stable emotions, often lives very simply. They do not have too much desire, so there is not much nostalgia to be able to truly concentrate on their own lives, to feel the state of reality. Such people are often calm, temperate, and in no hurry.
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